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Facts and myths about breast cancer

Get to know your breasts and the facts about breast cancer

It’s hard to separate fact from fiction when it comes to finding out the truth about breast cancer. In keeping with the theme of this year’s Breast Cancer Awareness month, Dispelling Breast Cancer Myths, Jane Ehrlich aims to set the record straight

The facts

1. Most breast abnormalities are benign
About 80% of breast lumps are. (The percentage becomes smaller as a woman ages.) Sometimes there can be cysts, nipple discharges and calcification (calcium salt deposits in breast tissues) resulting from injury or bruising, hormonal changes or infection. However, women should be aware of the signs that may indicate breast cancer:

  • Lumps in breasts and the area up to and around the armpits
  • Nipple discharge, rash or changes in position, or inversion (turning inwards)
  • Puckering or dimpling of the skin. Discomfort or pain in one breast that differs from the other
  • Any changes in shape, appearance, symmetry or feel of your breasts

2. Only a small percentage of breast cancer cases are hereditary
Just 5-10%. Researchers have identified two genes, BRCA1 and BRCA2, that, when mutated, are associated with an increased chance of getting the disease. Of all the risk factors involved (family history, age, early period or late menopause, childlessness or late childbearing), a mutated BRCA gene can account for 5% increased risk. According to the Cancer Research Campaign, the other 5% is thought to be linked to genetics as well, although how is uncertain.

3. Women spot most breast cancers themselves
Their partners often spot them, too. Lying down, standing in front of the mirror (for visual changes) and in the shower are all good positions to explore breast changes. Many women find their lumps when they and their partners are in bed or shower and bathe together.

4. It is safe to get pregnant after treatment for breast cancer
There doesn’t appear to be any extra risk of breast cancer returning if you get pregnant. However, many specialists advise women to wait for a couple of years after diagnosis of breast cancer, as this is considered to be the most common time for a cancer to recur

5. Survival rates have increased in recent years
The incident rate for breast cancer in England and Wales has risen -we're finding more cancers because of increased screening, awareness and better detection, according to Ruth Yates, of the CRC. But survival figures have risen significantly. We're living longer after having cancer. (‘Survival’ means staying alive five years after diagnosis. Improvements in screening programmes and uptake are recent, so 10-year rates aren't available.) As we're catching more early cancers, and as drugs improve, therapies are more effective. If detected in the earliest stage, there is a 92% survival rate.

The myths

1. Wearing a bra causes breast cancer
The rumour goes that tight bras obstruct the lymph system, so toxins collect in breast tissue, causing cancer. This assumption isn't even biologically plausible. Any decrease of blood supply (unlikely with a bra) or increased pressure doesn't create ‘toxicity’ in breasts, and can't cause normal cells to turn malignant. Wearing a bra doesn't cause cysts, either. (However, for a small number of women who have painful breasts as a result of cysts, going braless might decrease discomfort.)

2. Using antiperspirant causes cancer
It was thought that stopping our armpits sweating blocks the release of toxins, which then supposedly settle into the lymph nodes, and cells then become cancerous. Both the process and the result have no scientific evidence to support them. Sweat contains no toxins, just 99.9% water, salts, potassium and magnesium, and is there just to regulate our body temperature. It doesn't eliminate toxins - our kidneys and liver do this. The aluminium in antiperspirants is not carcinogenic. Chemicals that might enter our circulation don't necessarily end up stored in breast tissue or the lymph system. They're excreted by urination, or from other perspiring areas like the groin, behind the knees, or our palms. And antiperspirant chemicals don't end up in the lymph nodes.

 

Transgendered people's quest for perfect breasts is often unrelenting - but don't forget to care for them!!!

 

 

3. The Pill causes breast cancer
No it doesn't, even if you take it for 10 years or more. The amount of hormones in the Pill is too small to pose a risk. Most women are prescribed low-dose formulas, which contain 50-100% less oestrogen than most birth control pills had before 1975. If you took the Pill before that time, and have a strong family history of breast cancer, check with your doctor.

4. Breast cancer is the most deadly cancer for women in the UK
Correction: it's the most common cancer (36,141 new cases in the UK in 1996) but not the deadliest. That tragic honour belongs to lung cancer. While fewer women get it (15,246 in the UK in 1996), more die from it.

5. Self-exams are a waste of time
Wrong. Breast awareness works, and remains a useful method for early detection, along with mammography and regular breast exams by a medical professional. While none of these methods is 100% accurate, together they're the best means yet of finding any breast tumours. And the earlier a lump is found, as Dr Lesley Walker at the CRC points out, the less likely a mastectomy may be needed. Becoming familiar with how your breasts look and feel at different times of the month, means that if changes are noticed, you should see your doctor.

Questions to ask your doctor

1. What risk is there of me developing breast cancer?

2. What is the stage of my cancer and what does it mean?

3. What sort of treatment do you recommend and why?

4. What sort of risks will be associated with those treatments?

5. Will I be able to work or will I be at home in bed? For how long?

6. What should I do about diet and exercise while I’m getting treatments?

7. Will I be very disfigured? If so, can you tell me about options for reconstruction?

8. What’s my prognosis?

9. If I go through all the treatments as you prescribe, what are the chances that the cancer will just come back?

10. If it does come back, what then?

11. Are there any clinical trials I might be able to participate in?

 

Information supplied by Breakthrough Breast Cancer, CancerBACUP, Cancer Research Campaign, and the Breast Cancer Coalition.

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Hit it with Vitamins

You can take loads of vitamin supplements but where does it end? Here are a few worth taking and a few ways to get some good nutrients.

Every Day Take:
1x  good Multi-Vitamin tablet
1x  Vitamin E tablet
1x  Vitamin C tablet
Selenium - by simply eating a few Brazil Nuts every day.
25g of Hard cheese - e.g. Chedder
Plenty of fresh Fruit and Vegetables
Halibut Oil - If possible by eating 1 piece of halibut per week.
Liver - one portion of liver per week.
Vitamin D - Get some sunshine!  Half an hour with a third of the body exposed in the sun will go a long way to help in the absorption of your calcium and don't forget to get some excercise!!!

Fashion Hints and Tips

TIGHTS ‘N’ TOES

Girls, I just know how you don’t feel dressed without tights or hosiery of any sort possible. The only snag is when you wear your sandals or peep—toe courts, the toes can look unpleasant. Hosiery manufactures have noticed just how many women avoid tights when they wear sandals - to quote a recent ‘fashion expert, “Tut! Toes look weird in tights!”

NATURAL LEG TIGHTS with a SHEER TOE suitable to wear with open toe footwear.
As you can see (Fig 1) the toes have it when it comes to sandal especially in the hot summer months And remember always treat yourself to a nice rich nail polish.

(Fig 1)

Get the right toes for sandals

If you are going to wear tights, get the right toes. Modern tights (RIGHT FOOT) have better designed reinforced toes for when they’re on display, compared with standard reinforced toe (LEFT FOOT)

Hair and Wigs

GET A GOOD STYLE OF WIG THAT COMPLEMENTS YOUR FACE SHAPE

You want a wig - you are a nervous wreck! You would ask someone, or better still go and try a few.  What?!! No chance!!! I will get one mail order...mmmm? Page 7 looks good on that supermodel - but will it look good on you?  The shape of your face plays an important part in your style.  Below are a few pointers to help you through to your first wig. So what should you be looking for???

WIGS

Oval Face

If you have an oval face you can wear almost any shape so we'll skip that one.

Triangular

Go for:  Fullness on top and sides and a soft asymmetrical fringe to shorten the face, and wear earrings to distract from the jaw line.

Round

Go for:  Domed, slightly pointy top. Fringe cut at an angle slightly longer than the temple. Sleek, rather than full sides. Elongate the eyebrows and instead of blusher use a highlighter on top of the cheekbones with a lighter, brighter lipstick.

Inverted Triangle

Go for:  Gentle curves on the top Fringe longer in the middle and shorter at the temples. A single length bob cut just below the ears is the way to go.

Oblong

Go for:  Flat top with a graduated asymmetrical fringe which is blended into the main body of the hair. Fuller behind the ears to widen the face, this will also help if you have a long distance between nose and chin. Medium length layered bob.

Square

Go for:  Slightly domed narrow look on top. A slight asymmetric fringe, short hair worn behind the ears feathered onto the neck.  Long hair should go for a fuller top soft edges of the hair is recommended to avoid hard lines. As with the round face create longer eyebrows and wear earrings as with the inverted triangle to disguise the jaw line.

You can "quote" me on that!

Bianca Jagger
" Capture Osama Bin Laden, bring him to the West, make him into a woman and send him back to Afghanistan"  (Bianca Jagger, Human Rights Campaigner)


"Being a woman is of special interest only to aspiring male transsexuals. To actual women it is merely a good excuse not to play football."
(Fran Liebowitz called "the funniest woman in America," Fran Liebowitz is the author of two acerbic bestsellers, Metropolitan Life and Social Studies).

" I don't understand how some parents can disown their children after learning that they are gay. "This is the same son or daughter that they loved just 30 seconds before!"
(Mother of comedian Ellen DeGeneres and a spokeswoman for the Human Rights Campaign's National Coming Out Day.)

"Why is it so funny when men dress up as women?  It's partly because gender affects our lives and who we are more than anything else, it's easy to put on a frock, but what does it really mean to be male or female?" ( Professor Robert Winston, Child of our times BBC1)

"Eminent psychologists such as Jung (1875-1961) have found that change during the life course  is 'normal', obviously being transgendered could be seen as more extreme, but as the following quote points out radical change should not be seen as peculiar:
' We cannot live the afternoon of life according to the programme of life's morning, for what in the morning was true will at evening be a lie' (Jung, 1972, p.396. In Residential and Community Care of Transgendered People - On this site!).